I once had a job interview with an affable man who didn't end up hiring me. He'd given me a Myers-Briggs and I had come up my usual type.
"Hmmm..." He said, "An INTP. My ex-wife was an INTP."
"Mmm..." I said, not knowing what else to say.
He leaned across the desk, staring intensely into my eyes. "Do most people in the world not exist for you?"
"No," I said. "Well, I mean, here are some people I really connect with and some I don't, but even the people I don't connect with still exist."
"They just FEEL like they don't exist."
As I said, I didn't get the job, which wasn't a huge surprise. But I've never forgotten that guy or that conversation.
And I try to be better about letting even the people I don't naturally feel a connection to know they exist.
interested to hear the myers-briggs type of any Chalicesseur willing to share.